zinn21 wrote:Why would someone create these false realities that rarely last more than a few days? Do they think the truth will fail to surface or is the lure of revenge so great-they are helpless in controlling their fantasies?
Is there a therapist in the house?
Actually I stopped responding because of the many requests for this subject to drop. And if one recalls, I only wanted informed people to contact me I certainly didn't expect a debate in the process.
And if I did talk I wanted to temper my words.
How does one find truth?
#1: Please do a full criminal background investigation on those whom you leave your horses with.
Make sure it is felony and misdemeanor.
Normal criminal background checks extend a minimum of 7 years. You can do city, county, or several counties and you can request a search that isn't limited to a 7 year period.
PULL THOSE RECORDS
#2: Take the time to research the civil records. How many times has this person or facility been in a courthouse and what for?
If you find that they have their toothbrush and bathrobe sat in the courthouse you may want to think about the situation seriously.
If they have court cases one atop another with people from California to Florida you may be buying a ticket on the maiden voyage of the Titanic by moving your horses there. Can you swim?
PULL THOSE RECORDS
#3: Arrest records.
If you are able to please PULL THOSE RECORDS Very important to try and get those arrest records.
#4: Client references
Don't go on what you are given. Get on the phone and start doing some serious research.
Lastly. If you get into litigation. No matter how long it drags on, no matter how many games are played, no matter how frustrated and upset you may be... I beg you..
Please do NOT allow anyone to give you a settlement with a court ordered GAG attached to it.
It hurts those who follow, it makes it so hard to speak openly. It takes truth and it sweeps it under the carpet so that innocents walk ontop not knowing what is happening right under their feet.
Please, I beg. No gag orders. Fight unto the end, go public, do anything legally and morally within your power - but don't sign a gag order as part of a settlement.
~God Bless~