bcassidy wrote:I don't mean to imply that you fit into that catagory but he probably has many more stories (from his perspective) about customers that he wished he had done something about earlier. Someimes it is better to end a relationship earlier to save bigger problems down the road. You might have to walk in his shoes for a while to know what I mean by these last few comments. I can assure you that operating a large commercial farm has many challenges to overcome if you want it to be successful
It doesn't even need to be a large commercial farm, although I'm sure that can make it even worse, simply because you deal with more people & animals. I have had fellow boarders who were supposedly horse-people & should have known better do outrageous things, like the R.N. who encouraged her snot-nosed yearling to get nose-to-nose and "say hello" to several other boarders' horses because he seemed lonely in that isolation stall. And I've also seen a loving father who was taking his daughter for a walk in the country open the gate & allow his toddler to walk among a strange herd of horses, just because she liked them and he wanted her to be happy. I know of other farms that also close gates over their access roads, simply to avoid a loose-horse accident or well-meaning folks wandering on the property and getting hurt, especially when there are stallions on the premises. And they have the right to expect you to make an appointment to visit "their office" just like you would expect them to make an appointment to visit yours.
The road to disaster is paved with good intentions & really like someone said - the farm rules cover all sorts of things that you may not agree with, and your main recourse is to vote with your feet. I've had to tell a very good friend I could no longer board my horse at her property because I didn't want to interfere with her income but could no longer put my horse at risk due to the actions of fellow boarders, who took the 'it's my horse & my right to do what I want' attitude.
It may be your hobby, but it is their business.
No matter how conscientious of a horseperson you are & how few or short your visits, if the farm is run responsibly, an employee is taken away from other duties when you're there [whether you want it, or not] to see to your comfort & safety. If you call ahead, they can at least plan for it.