adrienne - what a terrific post. Thank you SO much!
I have learned SO much from the stallions I have dealt with (up to 4 now), and the main thing is that they are ALL different, and they ALL need to be treated with respect as individuals and you really DO need to find out what makes them happy, what makes them function at optimum efficiency and what boundaries you need to set with them and how you deal with them if they choose to overstep those boundaries occassionally ...
My first stallion - Spot Pocket - was probably the best stallion a young, dumb, stupid new stallion owner could have hoped for.

He taught me
SO much but what I didnt realize at the time, was that not every stallion was Spotty, and you had to adapt to each new stallion and not the other way around!
yes - there are some basic principles that they all must follow, but I think there the similarities end and thats when you need to take a step back and assess the animal you are handling and figure out what makes him tick and how you can achieve a harmonious relationship with him in breeding and non breeding situations.
I believe that it is very true that all stallions have an incredible sense of fair play, and they know when they are being dealt a crummy hand by their handlers and they will stew on it and they will nail you if you let your guard down if you have been unfair and unjust to them in the past. They will accept constructive discipline as long as it is fair and just and in keeping with the infraction at hand

, they hate being niggled at constantly - as adrienne said - dole out the fair discipline and then move on. You will have the stallion's respect by doing so!
A good stallion that has mutual respect with his handler will always give 110% in every single thing that he does. Personally - I love dealing with stallions and mares follow a close second ... They can be quirky and can test the limits of your patience at times but I find them both extremely gratifying and I find it interesting that some people will not tolerate either as show animals, but always opt for geldings instead
Its a shame that some stallions end up like they do and you wish that you could turn back time and make things better for them. These angry and dangerous stallions must be mentally tortured - there is really no other way to put it and its a shame that the humans that are entrusted with their care allowed it to happen in the first place ...
